The same narrative is being pushed on Ukrainians now, while Russia hasn't even finished committing war crimes & human rights violations in Ukraine. As with Bosnia, no forgiveness is possible without admittance of guilt & accountability.
Ever since the wars & genocide in the Balkans came to an end, experts, politicians, leaders, entities have all been pressuring Bosniaks to "forgive". They have been pushing for forgiveness without accountability and admittance.