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Men like fake dorky (hot girl who puts on glasses and pretends to like videogames), not real dorky.
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Men desperately want to dress up our interests as altruistic and pretend our crude sexual desires are more sophisticated than they are. In reality we're having a temper tantrum that we can't get laid.
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Every man wants to fool women either into thinking that men are generally innocent or that he, personally, is "one of the good ones." If men are honest, we admit that we all deserve at least a little hate.
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A non-trivial chunk of men do not really think of women as human beings, until some formative experience forces them to take women seriously. I think if that happens too late in life and men are poorly socialized, then they are just irreparably stunted.
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"Alright, say goodbye to your babymakers," and kicked.
Turns out I was wrong. It hurts. A lot. Was floored for like ~15 min in front of the whole girls' soccer team. Definitely changed my attitude, first time I realized "Oh shit, girls can mess me up if I piss them off."
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Women struggle to understand male sexuality. You think it's like yours, except maybe 'more.' That's not it at all. Male sex drive is radically different.
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I was a misogynistic asshole as a teenager, but had a crush on the head of the girls' soccer team, and, one day, I pissed her off while hitting on her, and she threatened to kick me in the nuts if I didn't apologize. I wanted to look all tough, and I'd convinced myself that a
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When he says "likable," he means a doormat that will never challenge him.
Men are deeply threatened by women who stand up to us. Even though, ultimately, it's those women who force us to be better.
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Yeah, that incident absolutely wrecked my ego, but was a big part of maturing and learning to respect (or at least fear) women.
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Redpill dudes on twitter: "She's hit the wall!"
Meanwhile literally every 20 year old would give his left nut to date her
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The tradwife fantasy and men shitting on fake boobs, lip fillers, etc. is also all part of this. A desire to deny the fact that male sexuality is actually very simple and kind of dumb if we're being honest.
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hasn't he posted before about how male bodies are objectively more beautiful or something
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kick in the nuts didn't "actually" hurt, so I told her it was a "girl-power myth" and dared her to "do your worst." She was confused but gave me so many warnings, explanations I as making a huge mistake, encouragements to back down, but eventually she just shrugged and was like
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these dudes who are overweight, balding, no chin, look like shit, uninteresting, with mid-jobs think that once they turn 30 they'll start seducing supermodels
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There is literally no 20 year old guy on earth who would feel "exploited" by Jennifer Lopez lmao.
When I was 18, I 'dated' an older divorcee. She was "using" me to get over it. I was in heaven.
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No man is mad that women dress like this. Men are mad that women *they can't have* dress like this. It's all resentment and projected sexual insecurity.
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Men will express empathy toward you, but you unfortunately cannot be sure whether this is sincere or a sexual strategy. In fact, it's doubtful whether men ourselves know whether we are being sincere.
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I've never understood how men don't feel pathetic complaining about this. It's like a total admission that you are not in control of yourself.
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Men are deeply anxious about the sexual power that women (including the typical woman, who is attractive) have over us, so we use the term 'mid' to downplay and deny this. It's an attempt to retake control in the midst of a felt vulnerability.
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We hate the fact that there is no "wall" and that women remain: (a) hot well into middle-age, (b) hotter than we are at every age bracket.
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"Men actually just wanna hold hands with a wholesome nice girl!"
dudes spend half our day fantasizing about sex with the latest hot woman we saw. Trads gotta set aside this dumb, sexless narrative that shifts blame onto women
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Women view sex like a nice meal: enjoyable, but can go without. Men view it like water: too long without, and it's pretty much the only thing we can think about.
Sure, we don't die without it, so if that's your standard of 'need' I grant that. But we experience it differently.
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She's not painting a flattering portrait of men, but it's at least half true. We think with our dicks a fair amount of the time, and women absolutely can control us through sex (or lack thereof). Harsh reality but you're gonna have to accept it one day.
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It's fundamentally about power. Men aren't upset that women have sex. Men are upset that women have sex *on their terms*, because sexuality is an area where women have all the power and leverage.
That's why men shame women no matter what they choose, because they *choose*.
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>Men are probably hornier
I think women just assume "men are like us, but just want sex a little bit more," but don't understand that it's much more radical than that in ways that you don't understand and, if guys were to explain it, you would find gross, weird, or funny.
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I really don't think women are as sexual as men, and women who say this don't really understand male sexuality.
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Men are deeply threatened by the possibility that a woman is not inferior to them in every way.
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It may be that what I am saying is untrue of some guys but more often than not I think guys deny this, especially to women, in order to come across well. Men are worried (with good reason) that if women understood male sexuality you would find it repulsive.
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Instead of the obvious answer (wealthy family, parents probably paid for it), he goes to schizo conspiracy that she's a prostitute. Absurd.
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These are like the dudes who cite allegedly common female r*pe fantasies to downplay SA. Even if we grant what they claim about these fantasies being common, it's like they're incapable of distinguishing between fantasy and the very harmful reality.
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okay sure yes men want other things than sex, but men also want sex for its own sake and freak out when they can't get it
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Yeah, the over-the-top-quirky behavior seems like low self-esteem and desperate for attention, which makes these guys think it'll be easy to get with her
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Well I think that men and women want sex in different ways, so it's mistaken to understand the issue as mere differences in degree. Women may want (and enjoy) sex a lot, but generally can get along fine without it. Men feel sexual urge as a very pressing need though.
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I think a lot of guys are deeply insecure about the fact that they might be sexually 'adequate' but are very replaceable.
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I think the issue most people have with huge age gap relationships is that it feels transactional. Gross old man is basically paying a younger woman to sleep with him. Maybe she's naive and he's lying to her, etc.
But like there is no downside to being a young guy banging J Lo.
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I genuinely don't understand why women are afraid to be "misandrist," why they act like "pickmes" and try to appease men. It won't make men respect you - quite the opposite.
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Yes. There are things you can do to make a guy more reticent, but virtually anything can be overcome if you're hot enough. Men will go after literal murderers if she's a 10.
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Misandry is the natural attitude for any woman who adopts a clear view of men. What to do with that (separatism, realistic engagement, etc.) is another question that depends on what a woman wants.
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huge age gaps are weird but uhhh... yes, a 24 year old can have things in common with a 20 year old? I don't even know what this person is getting at
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These men are upset that they get shamed for checking women out, and they offload the blame onto women. That's really the start and end of it.
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Men publicly feign innocence in order to secure a good reputation in women's eyes, but privately are aware of what men are like and will (very rarely) admit it (e.g. to women they care about).
Guys get very mad at me when I violate the taboo and just speak candidly about us.
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Both men and women get upset when rejected. But men get especially angry over it, out of a sense of entitlement. This is primarily because men tend to view women as means to sexual gratification, and we place a very high priority on this.
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Yeah, women have to endure all the difficulties of pregnancy, labor, breastfeeding, being the primary source of care.
Men get the most intense pleasure in the world for 15 seconds, relieving a frustrating sexual urge.
It's not comparable.
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Eh, porn is bad for men. It wouldn't necessarily have been "something else" - sex is uniquely controlling for men, and porn is uniquely accessible. That combination is much harder for most men to resist than drugs, etc.
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The things that we guys have to compare are:
1. Getting hit in the balls
2. Being sexually frustrated
which just shows how laughable men whining about victimhood really is
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"She's hit the wall, she's old!!!!"
she's hot as fuck, these dudes are pissed because she's 30 years older and still our of their league
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Most people naturally want sexual interest to be reciprocated - it's a key part of what makes sex enjoyable. That's one reason lust probably isn't the key motivator: in order to sexually abuse someone, you would need a depraved sexual impulse tied to power and sadism.
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Men are anxious about women's success, because masculinity is all about independence, yet we depend upon women for what we care most about (sex). We compensate by convincing ourselves we're superior in other ways, and we get upset when women disprove that, threatening our egos.
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also it's a t-shirt, how is it "immodest"? like lol, please stop having boobs, women, we can't handle it
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Yes, men are deeply insecure and resentful about the fact that, at all age ranges, women have more sexual power than men.
Theories about how men are superior in other ways (smarter, stronger, more self-controlled, moral, etc.) are ways to cope with this anxiety.
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Men want to appear thoughtful and intelligent and morally upright. We don't want to admit that actually we mostly think with our dicks and that our sexual desires are kind of cartoonishly straightforward.
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When guys claim to "need sex," what we really mean is "need to get off, preferably by having sex." And 'need' here used very generously.
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The real answer, for men, is physical unattractiveness.
Literally nothing else matters. Men will accept the worst personality flaws if a woman is sufficiently hot.
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I was a total asshole misogynist as a teenager. Captain of the girls' soccer team kicked me hard in the balls (long story). Made me realize "Oh shit, girls can mess me up, better stop bothering them."
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I was embarrassed about it, so I naively convinced myself it wouldn't "actually hurt." When I was a ~14 year old high school freshman, I shared this belief with an older girl on the soccer/football team. We argued, things escalated, and... well, she proved me agonizingly wrong 😅
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I don't understand how men possibly expect women online to sympathize with us over the "male loneliness epidemic," as though 99% of women don't have so many negative experiences with men that they are glad and think it's our just desserts.
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shit i thought if i anonymously negged you enough online maybe you'd date me, it's so over 😭
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I *jokingly* told a girl she was giving me blue balls when I was 16. She responded by kneeing me in the nuts. Learned my lesson and never complained about it again lol.
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Masculinity is all about independence, but men depend on women for the thing we want most (sex), which is a contradiction that produces anxiety in us. Coercion is one of many strategies that men use to cope with this and try to retake control by eliminating women's independence.
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Yeah, trads are like "i just want a wholesome girl to hold my hand and give me a kiss on the cheek once a week!" meanwhile goon their brains out to porn daily
women know this is all bullshit. guys think with our dicks, want the hottest girl we can find. It's pretty simple.
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could be a million reasons for his lack of interest, tbh. Most guys would really appreciate an attractive woman being interested in them, but would also be suspicious, because this so rarely happens without any context.
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"damaged goods"
the amount of dudes who'd give their left nut for her to notice them says otherwise lol
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they think that "civilization" means rocketships and nuclear bombs
in reality it depends on basic things like bread and sanitation
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Yeah, a rapist deserves far, far worse. Frankly, someone should consider himself lucky if he only suffered a testicular injury. Like wtf doesn't Jason realize this is a crime for which you can go to prison???
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dude went straight from "18 year old guys want to have sex with celebrities" to "oh so you're okay with molesting toddlers?!"
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I haven't followed the Crowder thing at all but that video of him yelling at his pregnant wife was insane
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Men, not even close. There are studies on this, but I'm also an instructor at a university and can confirm from my male and female students that it's very clear.
The women are more intelligent/hardworking, the men are more arrogant.
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Generally by the time you are a young adult, you should be thinking about morality as something more than a system of conventions. The "social rules" against rape are not just a matter of etiquette, like driving on the right side of the road.
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Women definitely do care about looks, but they are generally more flexible about this, they grow in finding men physically attractive, and they consider other factors.
Guys really only care if a woman is hot, and everything else is way behind.
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I swear like 90% of the interactions I see syoyo have on this site follow this pattern:
1. dude gets angry at her
2. dude implies she must be ugly
3. she posts a selfie
4. dude is silent for hours
5. after seething, dude starts to flirt with her
honestly dudes posting their L's
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Having been kicked in the balls by women more than a few times, not once did the experience make me feel "far stronger and more dominant than women will ever be."
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no man is actually mad that women dress like this. Men are mad that women *they can't have* dress like this. It's all resentment and projection of sexual insecurity
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Virtually all men secretly think we are better (smarter, stronger, etc.) than women, even if we are very clearly wrong about this. So men "lie" (even if it's actually correct) in order to come across well and get laid, but deep down retain a condescending attitude.
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Right, every self-defense training course will advise women to go for the balls... for the exact reasons Jason is talking about: it's incredibly effective.
I'm honestly baffled by his account.
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Dudes will say this, and then totally ignore that it's one of the reason girls are kicking guys' asses at every level of education.
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>It takes many generations of inbreeding to do that
that's not even true, there's a 1 in 3 chance of serious congenital defects from sibling incest
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"The wall" is fake lmao. When I was in high school and college I was drooling over women in their 40s. These guys are delusional.
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Haha, I still have a crush on her today, 15 years later.
Years later, she once asked me if I remembered that incident, and I cringed but admitted yes, I still wince about it. She just got really smug and was like "Good. That's satisfying to hear." 💀
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i dont think i ever fully understood why women get pissed off at "not all men" posting until this conversation
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