There is no difference. Semantics and rhetoric aside, your gender/sex, which is determined at birth by the presence of either a vagina or penis. Male or female. A birth certificate does not specify a gender, it specifies sex, determined by gender specific genitalia.
If a male wants to wear a dress and be feminine, fine. But he is still biologically a male. Still has male chromosomes, still has male muscle mass, still has an Adamâs Apple, a deeper voice, larger hands and feet, will still grown hair in un-feminine places, etc. Money can eliminate some of those male identifiers but cannot change DNA.
If you have a problem with that then take it up with your father. It was he who âdeterminedâ your sex at conception. Without his Y contribution, all babies would be born female. Itâs DNA and unchangeable. Itâs not someoneâs feelings or desires.