Told my gf yesterday of a hypothesis, in the end biology will win.
Females will choose mates who can ensure the survival of their offspring even though it looks like its for themself.
So they look for traits in males with that in mind. Financial success is a strong indicator (even if the wealth isn’t self acquired), also why i think most females will leave the fool soon as he’s parted with his money.
Seeking a ‘real man’, ‘leader of the pack’, ‘street smart’, imo its all just biology and natural selection in play. During teenage years when its not a concern, you see the first tweet, when the time is right, our dna honed since the first cave men, will shine through and you get tweet 2.
Males on the other hand feel the need to build community, gather as much resources so that they facilitate what all life is wired to primarily do, survive and reproduce (to ensure the survival of the next)