Just celebrated Swedish Midsummer and America’s 4th of July back-to-back, and they perfectly capture the togetherness and individualism that set these countries culturally apart.
In Sweden, gatherings are all about shared experiences. You arrive on time. You sit down together. There are toasts, multiple ones - after each everyone locks eyes before putting the glasses back down. You sing, even if you can’t carry a tune (or even know the words). Everyone joins the synchronized dance around the maypole - pretending to be frogs or other animals.
In the U.S., it’s more like: show up whenever, crank the music to 9, unlimited BBQ buffet and cold beers, and end the night blowing something up. Everybody is together but and everyone is doing their own thing.
That’s the difference, really. One assumes you want to be part of something. The other assumes you’ll figure it out for yourself—and if not, that’s on you.
I love both, but one is probably better for the soul, the other for business