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I finally found me a guy cool enough to last until I find a guy I really want
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now people forget and text at 11:59pm, with a βyou thought I forgot huh?β please delete my number ππ«
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Not gonna lie, this is actually sad. Growing up, we were continuously told about the value of education. Currently, over β
of the country has Bachelorβs degrees, and half of them only have student loan debt to show for it. Cold world.
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The real flex is just being yourself in a world where people live for an image
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never leave yourself for later, you are your greatest investment. invest in your appearance, education, health, hobbies, & goals. it pays off!
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Another side of this is, people need to realize no one is "obligated" to work things out with you. If you disrespect someone or cross their boundaries, it's their choice how they respond regardless of how you feel about it.
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My thing is as soon as youβre pregnant you need to understand that thereβs a possibility of you being a single mother if you keep it. Idc how amazing you think your man is. Are we not learning from the women whoβve come before us? Itβs unfortunate.
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There is something beautiful about having long term friends that have witnessed multiple versions of you and loved you unconditionally through each version
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Seeing a therapist is only about 10% of the solution to oneβs problems. That 90% is self work. Getting through each day, navigating your feelings, holding yourself accountable, healing, using and applying the tools youβre given in real life situations is all on YOU.
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Itβs okay to have different friends for different things. You might have one you party with, one you have vulnerable and deep conversations with, one you talk business with, one you travel with, etc. Sometimes theyβre all the same person, but even if theyβre not, thatβs okay...
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babe, youβre not an βempathβ you have ptsd from an unstable household, and are sensitive to emotional change as a defense mechanism.
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thatβs why i donβt tell anyone anymore.
not because iβm secretive.
but because iβve learnedβ
some dreams only bloom
in silence.
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just because you understand the pain and trauma behind somebodyβs harmful actions, doesnβt mean you have to put up with their damaging behaviors
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Funny how people are always ready to mirror the bad... but forget to reflect the good
Energy is a choice β choose wisely
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Yes but good colleagues should also never be underrated. If you have good boss but toxic colleagues, work wonβt be smooth for you, and you wonβt discover the best of what that work has in store for you when youβre surrounded by toxic colleaguesβ¦ talking from experience π₯Ήβ€οΈ
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People believe love is what they show in movies where you bump into someone and instantly fall in love. What no one realizes is that love is knowing someone & loving them despite everything
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i don't want to be that parent where my children will leave the living room as soon as I walk through the front door.
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in my era of giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. i accept you as you are and reject you
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these menβs biggest downfall is how lustful they are. like they canβt even connect on an emotional levelβ¦. & they canβt even have sincere conversations
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Youβre not too old. Youβre not too late. Youβre not out of time, life unfolds differently for everyone.
Be gentle with yourself.
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True, and avoiding all risks can set you back a lifetime. The key is making mistakes that teach, not ones that derail.
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She didnβt block him.
Didnβt curse him out.
Didnβt beg for closure.
She just became unavailable.
And nothing confuses a man more
than a woman who disappears
without making a scene.
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It's funny how after the birth of a baby, announcers declare that "mother and baby are doing fine".
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Shaming anyone for their living situation, possessions, or efforts is unproductive and unkind. Each person's journey is unique, and empathy and support can go a long way.
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I respect people who raw dawg heartbreak. Like no rebounds, no sneaky links and no going back to your ex. Just your, your tears and healing β€οΈβπ©Ή
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Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person. The hardest part isnβt just their betrayal, itβs the shame you carry for ignoring your instincts, for giving your best to someone who only mirrored what you wanted to see.
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I used to send paragraphs when my man was in no contact with me and wouldnβt speak to me. Not once did it ever make me feel better. I promise sending them a paragraph wonβt help you. Theyβre not going to change until YOU change your thoughts about them. Think in your favor babes.
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Cook, clean (wash dishes, wipe surfaces) simultaneously. This will help reduce stress after the meal.
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Most people don't care what you're going through, as long as you're ok enough to come through for them.
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