Everyone, loving the banter here. It’s all insightful and respectful, as adult conversations should be.
Here’s my couple of pennies on the topic:
I think adults are guilty for putting governors on the children. I remember spending all day outside, riding ATVs, climbing trees, hunting and making mistakes that called for some stitches, lol.
While I think every generation should have the goal of, “I want to make my child’s life easier than I had it” — there still needs to be a level of challenge, accountability and chores placed in the child’s life. This helps them grow as men and helps them learn how to overcame challenges.
On the flip side, I think this generation is more mentally aware than ever. Kids these days are maturing and learning about mature topics at a younger and younger age. They’re learning more and more about mental health every year and are quick to emphasis it in their life. Which honestly, I’m envious of sometimes.
So do I think this generation is mentally soft? No.
I think our generations were raised in a different world, where we were allowed to fail, allowed to get hurt, allowed to learn how to overcome.
Today, if kids don’t like a grade - they get mom to complain.
If kids are about to lose on CFB 26, they restart the game.
If everyone isn’t given a specific item, the parents complain on the kids behalf.
I think parenting styles have changed for better and for worse. I had the talk with my wife this morning:
I always want our kids to know we love them and they can come to use for absolutely anything. But I’m always going to challenge them to grow and learn as people — that’s my job as a father.