Brianna, I am not dodging your point at all, and my sentiments arenโt โempty,โ unfair and frankly insulting as that accusation is. I said it clearly โ I do not believe a man can become a woman. But how could you expect a heterosexual male who never experienced the gender issues you deal with to truly understand what youโve gone through? Iโve tried, successfully I add, to learn from you. And as I said in my initial post, I value your voice on this and the many other issues you are willing to discuss. I wish nothing but happiness and peace for you, your husband, and those you care about.