On Thursday, I spent time with the junior members of our Dallas office to listen and understand what they are feeling. I also wanted to express my heartfelt condolences on the terribly sad passing of Carter McIntosh and to make sure they know that both Brian and I, and every leader at Jefferies, are here at any time if anyone needs support or help. I was touched by what I heard about Carter being such a warm, outgoing colleague who had a joy for life and was so welcoming to everyone. It is clear what a well-liked and respected professional Carter was and how his loss has deeply impacted the office and, throughout Jefferies.
I hope that all who know me understand how heartbreaking this is for me. I think you know that I spend a lot of time with our juniors, not out of obligation but because I respect them and get more pleasure out of the experience than I can possibly offer in return. I do my best to share my perspectives with them in person and on social media for the benefit of all who might care to learn from things I did right and wrong during my career. And yes, I certainly joke with the younger folks in person and join them occasionally on social media as we laugh and poke fun at ourselves and our chosen industry through silly memes. My relationship with them, including the banter, is one of the highlights of my job. They are my extended family and I enjoy them thoroughly.
What none of us enjoy is the venom spewed on social media right now. The mostly anonymous social posts would rather use this heartbreaking event to lash out and make unfounded, vitriolic attacks accompanied in too many instances by violent physical threats. This is a sad reality of the world today, but we cannot let that negativity win the day.
My wish is that those who are so quick to judge, please think about the grieving McIntosh family. Carter and they deserve better than this. At this point, nobody knows exactly what happened and engaging in speculation with cynical assumptions serves no useful purpose and only adds to the grief that the McIntosh family is suffering. They deserve more respect and kindness than that. Now is the time to honor Carter’s memory and support his family and the ones who knew and loved him.
It is not right to mention the social media frenzy without talking about the topic of work demands. My view is widely known as I have written about it at length internally and on my social media posts, and it is a view that Brian shares completely. We speak often and emphatically about this and just a few weeks ago at our most recent town hall in front of the entire firm. We must appreciate our juniors and do as much for them as they do for us every single day. If any of you need help, we are both a phone call away. So are so many of our senior leaders throughout Jefferies. We are completely sympathetic to your needs and have employed considerable resources to support you. So, whether it is being overwhelmed by the sadness of Carter’s passing or getting overloaded by work or even feeling like there are things in your personal life that seem unmanageable, always feel free to reach out to us or to any of our capable senior leaders. We respect and value all of you and our goal has always been to be here for you. We may not have all the answers, but we are confident that we can get you the support you need. We have gotten these calls throughout our many years of service on Wall Street. What we hear has always been held in confidence and, in virtually all cases, has led to meaningful support.
Some people will pick apart this note and spin it with hate and ugly nuance once I share it publicly. I am not going to respond further privately or publicly to any of the vile comments or threats from these people.
In closing, I want to again express my most heartfelt condolences to Carter’s family, friends and colleagues. I personally grieve with you, as does all of Jefferies.
Respectfully,
Rich