I’m really big on showing up for those who show up for you. You can’t expect genuine love & support when that’s not what you’re giving. Reciprocity is everything. Love on who loves you. Don’t be so busy chasing anything that you lose sight of who has always been in your corner.
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Best part of me will always be you šŸ’›
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It’s so beautiful to watch your style evolve as a woman.
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I saw things I imagined, so much better than I could’ve ever imagined… 6/17/24 I delivered an absolute perfect angel in 3 minutes with 3 pushes, 7.7 lbs. šŸ¤ I feel so in love and complete.
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Married the love of my life in a sacred ceremony at our church while carrying our baby boy šŸ©¶ā™¾ļø 4.24.24 Officially Mr. & Mrs. Frazier, thank you God.
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My heart breaks that kids can’t even enjoy their college experience and feel safe on their own campus that should feel like home. Praying for the entire Morgan State community, both past and present.
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Women are so strong. It’s honestly unreal.
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Replying to @DACIASWORLD
Agreed! Bring back intimacy, begging, openness, etc!
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A lot of men are incapable of balancing fatherhood & partnership. The changes that women go through physically and emotionally to bring life into this world require a level of patience and selflessness in a partner that a lot of men do not possess & women aren’t settling anymore.
why do couples break up shortly after the baby born? Iont like det
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Maturing is one of the scariest, most beautiful feelings in the world. You feel yourself outgrow so many habits, things, and people at once. It is scary to wonder what’s next & what will be left, but exciting and exhilarating to look forward and trust all that is to come.
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I will be 9 months pregnant tomorrow, walking across the stage with my Master’s. God truly held me through these nine months, grateful to still be on Plan A. With each of my degrees, I’ve been carrying my children. Truly blessings from above, a vessel carrying angels on earth. ✨
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I thought Hannah was insufferable, but chile then there’s Monica talking about these damn flowers. #LoveIsBlind
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Counseling & therapy are extremely important when what you want is something that you’ve never seen and breaking generational curses is a priority.
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Replying to @ella_thereal
We’re just a little country, that’s all lol.
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People are so indirect, passive aggressive, and inauthentic these days that when you are direct, honest, and clear about your feelings it is easily misconstrued as being aggressive or angry. No, I’m just clear on what I do & don’t want, will and will not tolerate.
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Not to sound too clichĆ©, but you truly aren’t missing out on anything when prioritizing your goals, values, and developing discipline. It is truly a gift to learn how to honor your seasons + focus on genuine growth. Grateful for wisdom. Nothing to lose, everything to gain.
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Replying to @ERISTHEPLANET
Agreed! I can’t wait to see her as an adult.
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I remember when Kourtney K said she never wanted to get married, now she’s engaged to the love of her life. Jeannie Mai said she didn’t want kids, now she’s pregnant by the love of her life. It’s beautiful to see what the deepest and purest forms of love can do.
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Replying to @Miah_Loveee
Move weird, post weird, do everything to get your attention but be a mature adult and communicate what actually matters because theres really no substance just deep jealousy and envy that boiled over and they really can’t take any more or disguise it at that point.
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As sorry as I feel for Lauren losing the love of her life, I feel so immensely happy that she got to experience the love & peace that we all aspire to find in a partner. She had a man who protected her soul & gave her peace. That’s rare. #BETRemembersNipsey
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I don’t call people weird anymore. I’m extremely direct in exactly what it is - envy. People hate when your downfall doesn’t happen as they planned, when you persevere through trials that would’ve broke them, when the love you receive from everyone around you is authentic.
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My freshman year of college is still undefeated. The amount of bad decisions and fun I was having, unreal.
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Replying to @ZodiacFacts
Nothing like a Taurus Moon, we’re the best.
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This Kehlani EP will hold me over until I get some new Jhene Aiko.
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Replying to @shesredbone
Because literally a walking JOKE.
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I never knew how strong I was until I birthed my daughter today. The greatest part of me. All I can do is look at her and thank God for choosing me to be her mommy. 1/11/19 šŸ¦‹
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A whole lot of shit ain’t a secret, it’s just none of your business.
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Reciprocity is a major theme in my life right now. I only want connections around in which people are pouring into me as much as I am pouring into them. It took a lot of self reflection to understand that a source of my anxiety has been pouring from an empty cup.
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Replying to @__TwoOfaKind
Amen to that. It’s beautiful to reconnect after misunderstanding and just overall growth on both sides when respect remains present through the separation… but too many people utilize the opportunity to show their true face & that just can’t be unseen.
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PerfectionšŸ’
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Replying to @csweets33
Yes, it can clarify differences in communication style & help work through previous relationship and childhood trauma that could prevent their maximum success and happiness in the future. Everyone should absolutely have deal breakers, but most times it’s lack of understanding.
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Sending love to all of those grieving for any and every reason during this holiday season. Praying for your peace & comfort through it all. šŸ¤
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Nipsey’s mother is such a beautiful soul. Her son got it, honestly. I say it all the time, a man’s mother truly makes or breaks who he becomes. It takes a beautiful soul to create one. She’s amazing, peace in a woman. #BETRemembersNipsey
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My angel šŸ’•šŸŒøšŸ’žšŸŽ€
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Literally. The ones in a glass house always swear… nvm šŸ¤£šŸ™ƒ
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I really love that everyone really has their eyes on a black food critic. There’s truly nothing we can’t do. S/O to Keith Lee!
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My Son 🩶 So blessed with the best of both worlds, such a beautiful chapter of my life. The most amazing surprise that I never knew my heart needed. An absolute gift sent by God that I cannot thank Him enough for. Truly blessed beyond measure, in every way.
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Replying to @BrianniT
My grandmother and I were just talking about this! The economy is so different than it once was when all of the hosting fell on one person, it’s also emotionally taxing as well to constantly pour and be used. Nobody’s willing to do that anymore, equally yoked everything!
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Perfect girl ✨
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I hate when I can tell someone has the spirit of competition. I can’t understand jealousy at all. When you understand divine timing & purpose, you move in nothing but love and light because you can comprehend that nobody else’s wins or losses can impact your path. It is written.
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Pray about whatever is on your heart, give all of that anxiety to God, and go to sleep.
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I don’t think we talk enough about how difficult navigating friendships in adulthood is. Transitioning from having so much free time to having to manage our time based on responsibilities create so much space for things to get lost in translation. We owe each other more grace.
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Rain on the first day of the year is so purifying & cleansing. I love this movement into the new energy of 2022.
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Replying to @lordtaylorvb
Y’all be making me wanna binge Power again so bad, lmao omg
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Time management & discipline are so essential in this current season.
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I love drunk me, she’s good times.
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Replying to @nottydesignss
We are veryyyy self-aware. Nobody can tell us about ourselves simply because our accountability is so strong and we truly understand that perception and intention are completely different things so we are able to take responsibility for our actions and how they impact others.
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Replying to @nancsefah
That’s what I said! If she brought it up weeks after they got home sure, but on vacation?! Man, bring me a piƱa colada.
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Brightening up timelines & spirits, my sweet baby is 3 months today šŸ’•
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'It's gonna take a real man to appreciate your strength and ability to put yourself back together whenever you break.'
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Your priorities speak volumes about your character.
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Replying to @selenvacarter
The fan is so me because why do men like it so damn hot?! šŸ˜‚ I need it a little chilly to sleep and be comfy.
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Replying to @faiththegemini
No because why did this pic bring the scene back to me & piss me off like it just happened?! šŸ˜‚
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Teaching myself to remain calm through all situations and circumstances.
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Women literally give it all back ten fold. When we’re happy, we going make a man ten times happier; when we’re unhappy, we have nothing to give.
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Lord, let my 2018 be like Cardi’s 2017.
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Can’t wait to see myself in my prime, it’s only up from here forever.
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Munch ā™„ļø
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Replying to @taeseru
Literally! Swear everybody ā€œjealousā€ šŸ˜‚

ALT Spongebob Squarepants Imagination GIF

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Replying to @KaiKuisine
When he popped up I laughed so hard because that’s real af!
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Homecoming was nothing but great vibes, reminiscing on happy memories, enjoying time with friends that turned into family. Morgan State was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made & four of the BEST years of my life.
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Replying to @BigBellyButta
LOVE a creative man! This is everything!
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BeyoncĆ© really said, ā€œBlindly in love, I fucks with you until I realize I’m just too much for you.ā€ The absolute greatest.
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Replying to @royalepains
Gotta literally make shit up, like eww.
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Apryl and Omarion are so grown- I'm just loving their bond and their vibe as a unit. šŸ˜šŸ’Ŗ #LHHHollywood #LHHHReunion
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Tru TaĆ­na šŸ¦„
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Kim K saying that she loves to figure out what her kids love most & takes them on separate trips based on their interests… major goals. Also, being able to incorporate friends and their passions for their children, soo beautiful. #TheKardashians
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I wish I could be selfish & do people the way that they do me, but God won't let me.. My heart won't let me.
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If you don’t hear this wind outside & aren’t grateful for the roof over your head and heat in your house, you need to re-evaluate life.
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Being a mother is so much more than pictures & posts. It’s working day in & day out to build a life and legacy for your child to cherish and flourish. It’s putting in time and energy to raise healthy, happy, intelligent human beings that feel fulfilled by your love & support.
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Mommy.
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Replying to @royalepains
šŸ˜‚ I be excited but tired as a MF! Ain’t nobody trying get back to the resort at night, we gotta live it up!
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Replying to @Veleee7
3 months or 3 years, I just really needed to sit down and think about it…
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Resonates perfectly, the worse pain I’ve experienced came from friendship heartbreak & I wouldn’t wish that on anyone in this lifetime. When you give your all, love/support unconditionally it takes years to rebuild trust in your discernment & dissect the lesson you needed.
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Replying to @heyhoneyrae
YES… or trying to convince other people of a narrative that you created in your mind about me with no substance just to build a team. Yuck, yikes.
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It’s okay to distance yourself from people when you feel that you’re just at different junctions in life. The love is still there, we just aren’t in the same place. It doesn’t mean either person is better/worse, we just can’t relate to each other right now & that’s OKAY.
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Replying to @_sforsierra
Yes, and saved her baby. Gone too soon, clearly a beautiful and intentional soul.
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Replying to @Stackz2u_
I’ve been binging the old seasons and the entertainment was THERE, like reality tv just hasn’t been the same since šŸ˜‚
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Freed our neos tonight. Can’t wait to see you ladies do amazing things. #DOA šŸ’•šŸ’š
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Replying to @jarievee
I still don’t know, she just knew. She asked ā€œWhen did y’all start having sex?ā€ And I told her the date, then she was like okay well we’re getting birth control at the next doctors visit šŸ˜‚ and that was it. I always thought she’d kill me, but it was so simple.
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Strive to make everything surrounding school exciting & loving. We influence our children’s attitudes & mindsets in so many ways based on our enthusiasm, attention & care. Teaching her to value her education/intelligence, and that her beauty is more than the aesthetic. šŸ§”šŸ§šŸ§ šŸ““šŸ’­
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As women, we outgrow relationships, friendships, and habits; We have to accept that & realize there's nothing wrong with change. It's growth
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Right before God opens a door, life typically gets pretty hard.
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Mom & Dad.
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THIS! I literally only do other things bc I live with somebody. Other than that, I could live off of salmon & shrimp.
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One month in heaven with you. I look into your eyes everyday and remember I can do anything in this world because God chose me as a vessel to give you life. šŸ¦‹šŸ‘©ā€šŸ‘§šŸŒˆšŸ’•ā™„ļø
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Because they’ll never win the competition they created in their mind that doesn’t even exist to you. Then, because they’re losing, come up with reasons and excuses that do not exist to ā€œhateā€ you. That jealousy transcends to envy, and envy is dangerous because it has no limits.
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It’s unreal how God will literally place the same predicaments/opportunities in front of you to truly prove that you have become who you say you are, to see if you’ve actually done the work to learn, grow, and heal & actually make different decisions instead of repeating cycles.
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Idc, Blac Chyna is carrying her pregnancy amazingly.
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Another 4.0 in the books, with a cumulative GPA of 3.95 ✨ Hardest semester yet, but my faith & work ethic never wavered. So excited for graduation this Spring!
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I love that Afeni’s sister is such an active part of this documentary because she’s able to give first-hand accounts of both of their personalities and realities. Her personality feels familiar, just so candid and down to earth about it all. #DearMamaFX
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Psychologically, birth order determines so many factors in personality, life tasks, and values. Certain birth orders are even more compatible with one another than others. Truly one of my favorite things that I’ve studied!
And one thing I’ve learned about dating is that it’s very important to know which number sibling your partner is.
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Yes! My daughter has 2 life insurance policies, a stock portfolio, and a college fund. Set your babies up for financial success first + foremost.
Get you & yours kids whole life insurance it’s basically another form of a savings. My kids will have at least 30k by 18 to start off with
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Finished my cap šŸŽ“āœØ
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BOY MOM 🫧🩵 I love you, Kreed.
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You are just what I prayed for, you are what I was made for šŸ’•šŸ¦„šŸŒøšŸ­šŸŽ€āœØ
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Damn I miss college. Campus would’ve been lit today.
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I’m definitely the type who wants the ā€˜lovey dovey, been married for years but still head over heels for eachother in old age’ type of relationship. I need to always be in love. All or nothing. That’s my reality.
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