Yesterday, another reformed baptist at our church became a paedobaptist.
He had studied the debates for years. What finally pushed him over the edge?
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@kingswayarizona, we have the Lord’s Supper every Sunday. Everyone who is baptized walks up to the table—men, women, and children (even toddlers).
This man saw his family divided as he, his wife, and two oldest sons came to the table, but his five other children were left in their chairs (some of them much older than the young kids partaking around them).
He saw how this weekly moment communicates to his unbaptized children, “This is for us and not for you,” “Christ is our God and not yours,” “We are in the covenant, and you are not,” and “We are inside, and you are outside.”
He finally saw how credobaptism had sowed individualism, doubt, and division in his own family. At that moment, they were not one family in covenant with God; they were a conglomerate of individuals, some in and some out, based on their own “choice.”
It broke his heart and he finally understood covenant for his home and the church.
We’re baptizing his children this week.