Eigen is wrong here.
Daniel Penny is a USMC veteran trained to do the right thing even when no one else is looking, do the right thing even with no reward, and do the right thing even when the world turns against him.
The USMC trains a bias for action. To take decisive action when it matters most. He did take decisive action.
The QTs imply that the behavior of the men of the bystanders is shameful. Is it?
For one, look where the event occurs in a NYC subway station.
NYC is the definition of a victim state. You are legally not allowed to protect yourself in New York City, and many of the laws, specifically on guns, have been lawfully fought on Constitutional grounds. So, the government in New York is already violating the rights of the citizens. This city will watch as you are victimized and then punish you for thinking you have a right to protect yourself. Will the police come to your rescue? Maybe, probably not in time.
An interesting question can arise about Daniel's actions. The state's monopoly on violence is only moral if it uses it justly. Therefore, the state's actors can have a reasonable bias against vigilantism. The interplay between vigilantism, vengeance, and justice is at the heart of the legal system. Was Daniel's action just? Not really from a state's actors' perspective; it was vigilantism.
But is New York City a place where good men can be expected to be treated justly? No.
So, asking an arbitrary man to intervene where good men are punished for good deeds incorrectly understands the environment. To shame these men, one would have had to be willing to take the same actions and suffer the same consequences for them.
Would Darbra have been willing to defend the people being attacked on the subway? If not, she is part of the problem. She expects better men to do what must be done and is willing to discard whoever is caught in the crossfire.
There is a shame that should go around, though. It is the shame not of the man who has his responsibilities and takes care of them and therefore cannot intervene but the shame of the incompetent government officials who allow these situations to occur.
The government officials are incompetent, and the incompetence is downright evil.
Jordan Neely, the man who was killed in the incident, was a homeless individual going through a bout of untreated schizophrenia with an extensive criminal history.
The City of New York steals money from its taxpayers and pretends to solve homelessness, help schizophrenics, and keep criminals away from the general public. Because of these deceits by public officials and good men who say nothing about the government's failures, this situation occurs, and sadly, it happens very often.
In a just society, good men need not be compelled to do the right thing. A just society will reward good men. New York City is not a just society. Daniel Penny was a vigilante; many vigilantes are laudable. Had Penny not intervened, we'd likely have one less dead body and a few more rights violations. A more callous person might discard Jordan Neely. Neely was violating someone's rights, and therefore, his rights were forfeited. Maybe a more compassionate person might argue that Neely could not rationally violate anyone's rights. Homelessness and schizophrenia make people incapable of dealing with the world rationally, and therefore, we as a society ought to try our best to fix those ailments.
Either way, the government's evil incompetence puts good men and the downtrodden in lose-lose situations. Penny is an honorable man, but Darbra understands nothing about honor. You don't honor Penny by talking about shaming men who have their own lives and responsibilities. You honor Penny by fixing the laws in New York City and firing every state actor who believes this is a good prosecution, and if you can't do that, then you shame all of the taxpayers in New York City who won't do it.
darbra is correctly identifying shameful behavior on the part of men
the men who are angry at her are correctly identifying shameful behavior by our society toward men who behave honorably, no question
and also, i think the men yelling at her are reacting out of their own shame