a personal mantra is an affirmation to motivate and inspire you to be your best self.!!
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I've tasted long term relationship, l've tasted casual dating. I highly recommend focusing on your career and going to sleep before 9PM..!
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Girls who carry lip gloss, hand lotion, a mini perfume, and a pen in their bag are 400% more powerful.
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I miss the innocence of loving someone wholeheartedly, without the constant fear of being hurt.
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i texted him "have fun" and he texted back
"no i'm still gonna text you" and that basically sums up the kinda man i want.
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Men: 'I hate drama'
Also Men: Love triangles, secret babies, wife, side chick, ex still in picture, breadcrumbs and a heap of unhealed trauma
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I just heard someone say “maybe you don’t need more time to heal, maybe you need more experiences that show your nervous system a different realty”
And, yeah.
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Just realized emotionally unavailable men bring out my clingy side and clingy men bring out my avoidant side. Now whattt? Lol
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Knowing a man loves you but can't love you properly is a painful situation.
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No one has a stronger victim complex than a man who genuinely believes he's a good person...
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A lot of women are reaching that stage where they want to be loved right or left ALONE completely. No in between. No second chances..
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"you're too picky"
His morals will raise my children. His hands will protect my home. His heart will nurture mine when I'm hurting.
You’re not picky enough
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girl to girl. I hope the next one is obsessed with you and protects your heart like it's his job
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“Does he make your heart race?” a girl asked.
“No, he makes my nervous system rest,” a woman replied.
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She has NO idea…
But in a 3 months, she’ll be living the rich girl life.
She is you. I’m talking about YOU sis!
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girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone
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Dating in adulthood isn’t about love anymore.
It’s about who can stay emotionally regulated during 3 days of weird vibes and mild miscommunication..!
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Men be like… “let’s take it slow financially, but let’s take it fast physically”
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I love when a woman doesn’t announce her moves, then boom: quantum leaped, new address, new lover, new income, new timeline.
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i hope every “i don’t ask for much” girl finds her “i already did it without you asking” man
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Stop saying “women choose bad men.” No. A lot of men pretend to be good until you’re too deep in to run..!
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Worst place to be is with a man who don't really want you and won't let you go
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i will marry a soft hearted, loving & emotionally intelligent man who loves me like I'm the air he breathes..
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Hey…
Can I tell you something?
"A man who wants a wife and children is not the same as a man who wants to be a husband and a father. "
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men are so calculated in the way they treat you so yes he did mean what he said and did to you!
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No woman leaves a man because he's broke.
Women leave when they're disrespected, undervalued and unloved
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If he wants you, he will neverrrrrrrrrrrr give another man the opportunity to get you ..
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being emotionally attached to a man is the worst mistake you could make in life
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"we'll figure it out together"
"i can make time"
"I just called to hear your voice"
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Unpopular fact:
Telling your partner who you're with, where you are going, who flirts with you, what time you'll be home is not controlling, it's called
RESPECT.
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Introverts love a boring life — slow mornings, quiet spaces, and nights with nowhere to be. It’s not boredom. It’s how we recharge, reflect, and feel most alive..!
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WOMAN TO WOMAN: When you learn to love yourself, your taste in men will change.
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You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.
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I'm so in love with this quote:
“When the replacement from God arrives, you will forget what you lost.”
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Let’s normalize being single until you meet someone as genuine as you. Don’t rush into things.
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A woman with money is a woman with options.
Stay with me.
A woman with money is a woman with options.
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Let's be clear, a lot of women don't have "trust issues." They have "I've seen this pattern of behavior before, and I REFUSE to go through the same thing again" issues.
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Ladies I need y’all to understand 27-35 will be some of the hottest years of your life if you think 23 is prime as far as looks you have been lied to!
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There are men who are fine as f—k, providers, emotionally intelligent, family oriented, and will put everyone in their place about you. Don't ever let anyone convince you that you can't have that.
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Healing made me mean. Not in a bitter way… in a “stop playing with me” kind of way.
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He gon naturallyyyyyyy wanna post you, brag about you & act like he hit the jackpot… if you the one he actually want.
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Just because he’s ugly doesn’t mean he’s gonna treat you better. Date your type. It’s alright.
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Girl to girl: it’s okay to be alone, it’s okay to have a dry phone, it’s okay to be celibate, it’s okay to be selfish, it’s okay to have high standards. ✨
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Girls , normalise saying “this isn't how I want to be loved" and move on. You're literally someone's dream girl. Never settle for less than you deserve.
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The scariest part about dating in 2025 is how many people are okay with losing someone real because they’re addicted to attention from people who don’t care.
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Girl, you're allowed to fall in love during your healing process btw, someone will love the unhealed version of you. you're worthy of love even when you're not the best version of yourself..!
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I don't think women are becoming heartless.
I think they are becoming more aware of how they want to be treated and what's really worth their energy.
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Until a man makes it crystal clear that you’re his, text them all back. Go on all the dates. Do what you want. You’re single until you’re claimed—not confused.
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Girl code: We don’t joke about miscarriage, single motherhood, or being cheated on. That’s not funny. That’s trauma. Act like women, not audiences.
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I want my man to be able to enjoy his life and still be faithful. Go out and have fun with your friends. Just respect me in my absence. That's all l ask...!
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I can no longer be just a giver. I want to be loved, nourished, taken care of, spoiled, and prioritized - not just with words, but with actions too...
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Unpopular opinion: A man being a provider means nothing if he’s emotionally unavailable and mentally abusive.
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IGNORING HER only teaches her how to live without you. Men think she’s suffering, but she’s actually adjusting.
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A healthy relationship will test you more than a toxic one.
Because it won’t let you run. It holds up a mirror and says: Show up. Communicate. Grow. That’s why real love scares people more than chaos ever could..!
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Girl to girl: When a man want you… he gon’ naturallyyyyyy call you, text you, and check on you without you asking.
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"When a man treats you well, it becomes a pleasure to take care of him in return."
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Men say “makeup is deception.”
Sir, you pretended to be emotionally available for six months.
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These men want a soft, feminine woman, but they don't understand that you have to make her feel emotionally secure and safe first.
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No one talks about the feminine pleasure in making a house feel like home.
That’s an art.
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“Why are you so picky?” Because I’ve read about men who’d burn kingdoms for a kiss and you can’t even spell “definitely” right.
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Being EMOTIONALLY MATURE and ATTRACTIVE is probably a curse.
You end up catching the attention of people who crave your energy but can’t match your depth.
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I muted the guy I like from watching my story because I found myself seeking validation from that minuscule interaction. It was passive engagement that I mistook for closeness.I didn’t want my standard for closeness to be lowered ,so I’m glad I did it.
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Cutting off a narcissist from your life and radically accepting you're going to be the villain in their delusional world is top tier self care.
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Girl To Girl: Controlling yourself from texting them is better than being ignored and forcing the conversation.
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WOMAN WHO don't CHECK A man's phone will still find out if he is m unfaithful through their intuition and dreams. Trust ME, a woman's SPIRIT WILL tell her everything she needs to KNOW.
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Men be like, "That's my dream girl," then ruin her perspective of love forever.
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'You’re so private and mysterious.” Girl, I just stay inside the house and only go out to either work or see the people who are kind to me. idk what else to say..!
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When a man is serious about you, he will give you clarity, communication, confidence, & commitment… NOT confusion, inconsistency, or mixed signals!
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dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on your bad days >>>
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When love visits again — may it be God sent, safe, secure, genuine and reassuring.
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The hardest truth you will face as a woman is realising that men will stay with you for years without ever choosing you.
A man can enjoy your company, your body, your kindness… and still never fully step into the role of choosing you as his life partner.
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A lot of women are reaching that stage where they want to be loved right or left alone completely. No in between. No second chances...!
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Worst betrayal isn't cheating, it's pretending you love someone while secretly planning the exit.
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Please don’t settle for me. If you think you can find better, I beg you to do so. You not finna stress me out tryna turn me into the woman you really want,I will survive. BYE. 😭
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I don’t want a “bare minimum” man. I want a delusional man. Obsessed. Overprotective. Pray over me before I sleep energy..!
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being a “girls girl” also includes holding your friends accountable when they’re wrong. “I love you girl, but what you did was not a good reflection of who you are”
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your partner, is supposed to be your safe space, not another battle in your life.
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She has no idea, but in 30 days, she’ll have everything she once cried, prayed for & more.
She is you. I’m talking about you 🫵🏼
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Ignoring your girl's needs and still expecting a happy relationship, is like ignoring your plants that need water and still expecting a beautiful garden..!
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girl,be as picky as you want, because marrying late has never ruined a woman's life, but marrying the wrong man has destroyed countless. normalize choosing standards over desperation,nd freedom over fake fairy tales. because a ring without respect is just a handcuff in disguise.
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I met the saddest version of me this year. I lost my spark, mind, and everything.
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Nobody talks about the silent rage of a smart woman stuck in survival mode.
She’s polite. But she’s plotting..!
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Sis, stop letting "situationships" prevent you from going on dates. You are SINGLE.
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Un(fortunately) she no longer enjoys the bare minimum. She wants to be loved loudly. Take pictures randomly and show her off, be her biggest fan. Bring her flowers for no reason or occasion. Tell your friends and family about her.
She's done with that nonchalant stuff.
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Most women don’t “pick wrong.” They pick someone who looked safe — until he wasn’t.
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Men be like: “She’s crazy.”
Sir… she communicated 14 times and you ignored every single one.
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Y'all can keep your party men. My type is in bed by 10pm, sore from his weekly workouts, binging his shows, eating his snacks, and waiting to give me attitude .
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