My dad just received a pretty sizable bonus.
I congratulated him, and said he should treat himself to something nice and invest the rest.
He immediately got defensive and said there were too many expenses this month, that he’d invest what’s leftover at the end of the month.
I told him that’s ass-backwards. He should pay himself first because knowing him, that money will be gone before he knows it.
He told me “you don’t get it” and that that’s not realistic. He said I’ll understand when I have a house, kids, and more stuff.
Love my Dad, but he’s the one who doesn’t get it.