IMO the biggest way we're living in an idiocracy is minimizing the importance of community.
We're tribal animals. We're supposed to find purpose and connection from contributing to a community of people we know and love.
Instead the norm is to:
- isolate yourself solo or in a nuclear family unit
- choose where to live based on granite countertops and nice closets
- ignore proximity to friends, family, and community
And then say, "Oh it's fine because I've got ____" then fill in the blank with some last-100-years tech thing that only gives you 1% of the connection you need: phone calls, group texts, video games, internet communities, social media, driving/flying to see people you love 1-2x a year, etc.
So millions of people have no real community.
Then people are lonely, stressed, depressed, and wonder why.
And couples are breaking up and divorcing over the time commitment of raising kids and the monetary cost of $2000/mo/kid for childcare, wondering how it could ever be more efficient.
Even worse, nobody works on relationships.
The "healthy norm" is to cut people out and disappear into the sea of millions.
If you don't love your family, you move away. If you get in a fight with a friend, you never speak again. If you break up with an ex, the expectation is to delete them from your life as if they never existed. Etc. So nobody has relationship skills to work through challenges.
Sadly it's hard to fight against all this, except to be born into a community where these things are not the norm.
Something I noticed on here
People in twenties barely ever cook or don't even know how to cook anymore
Their entire concept of meals is just from delivery apps
There was a guy on here that was concerned about microplastics and wondered "how can I eat food if delivery apps package everything in plastic" and I was like "yes you gotta cook your own food"