For a time, I worked from home with a 1 year old and 3 year old with my husband working outside the home (he’s a plumber).
I programmed with kids on my lap. I programmed with one hand when my kid fell asleep on my other hand. I had many meetings with kids around. I made lunch for them every day. I sat outside so they could play while I worked. I had many late nights and early mornings until they got older.
Every evening after my husband came home from work and showered, I would grab my car keys, tell him “they’re your kids now” and go out for an hour. Usually to a book store. Come home, family time, put kids to bed, and work a few more hours.
During that time, I had some of my best performance reviews and got a promotion too. I like to attribute it to the grit managing such chaos involves.
They’re only young once. The chaos won’t last forever. One day in the future I’ll be working and just wishing my kids would come bother me. I try to keep that in mind to keep a good perspective.
Dad developers.
How can you even work at home when you have a kid and a pregnant wife who are always interrupting you?
Yes, I have my own office. But it seems like they are mistaking it for a hallway or something.