Doctor of Human Sexuality 💋 Host of Sex With Emily Podcast 🎧

Normalize hiring a sex worker for your threesome.
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Normalize eye contact during sex.
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Clitoral stimulation, NOT penis size, is what helps vulva owners orgasm. Spread the word.
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Vanilla sex can be great. So can kinky sex. Neither is better than the other; the best sex is the one YOU want to have.
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Having an orgasm is one thing. Walking away from a sexual encounter feeling truly satisfied is another.
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The best sex is the kind that makes you feel free to be exactly who you are.
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My sexual preference is often.
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Be the porn you want to see in the world.
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Good sex starts with great communication.
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Shoutout to all the men who are pro sex toys 👏
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Your sexual satisfaction grows in direct proportion to your communication skills.
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Normalize using toys during sex to help both parties orgasm.
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Show of hands for men who love it when their partner uses a toy during sex?
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What’s a non-sexual sign someone will be great in bed?
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Having sexual fantasies is a part of being sexually healthy. They are not something to be ashamed of.
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It's 2021. Can we please normalize using a vibrator during partnered sex?
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Life is too short for bad sex.
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Scheduling sex = not boring, not a sign that your sex life is dead. Reframe it as an opportunity to build sexual tension, and nine times out of ten, the sex itself will be hotter.
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I know a lot of women forget to masturbate... so let this be your reminder. 😘
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You deserve a sexual partner who loves seeing you in your pleasure.
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Can we please normalize awkward sex? Slippage happens. Climaxing early happens. Queefs happen. Awkward sex HAPPENS.
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Mutual masturbation is hot AF—you get to watch AND be watched!
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PSA: casual sex still requires everyone involved to be decent human beings.
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Sexual confidence doesn’t come from having a huge penis or looking the way society tells us is hot. It comes from living in harmony with yourself, which puts other people at ease.
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Sex is messy. We’re all human. A little bodily fluid never hurt anyone.
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PSA: prostate orgasms feel similar to a G-spot orgasm – deep, internal, and incredibly intense. And: you don’t have to be erect to experience one.
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Make. Noise. During. Sex.
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Go on an orgasm bender this weekend.
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Sex is more than P-in-V penetration. It’s a conversation between two bodies.
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In a couple? Want to try a threesome? Follow these 3 easy steps: 1. Hire 2. A 3. Sex worker. Happy #nationalthreesomeday!
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FWIW: enjoying anal sex has nothing to do with your sexuality.
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Face-sitting oral sex: love it or hate it?
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Open poll. Does it turn you on to turn your partner on?
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Porn is not realistic. But if you consume responsibly, you can learn real sex skills from today’s porn options.
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Raise your hand if you’ve ever been wildly turned on by someone’s body scent.
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Don't let shame prevent you from having the sex you crave.
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Reminder: masturbation makes you happy.
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Masturbating with a partner is hot AF.
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Create the porn you want to see in the world.
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Okay, squirting is normal and super common and kind of amazing.
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If masturbation isn't self-care, I don't know what it is.
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Sexual confidence doesn’t come from being perfect or having lots of sexual experience. It comes from self-acceptance.
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Masturbated so well today I screamed my own name. #MasturbationMay
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I don't just want sex—what I want is erotic collaboration.
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Fact: you’re 80% more likely to orgasm with the presence of lube.
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Who else here is sapiosexual? (When you get turned on by intelligence.)
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Self-care Sunday: phones off, vibrators on.
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You deserve a partner who loves exploring every inch of your body.
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What’s a sex act you haven’t tried yet, but you’re curious about?
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Sex toys = your teammates, not your competition.
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Adults NEED play in their lives to be healthy. That’s what kink is: sexual play.
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Penis owners, life is short: buy a sex toy.
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Have sex tonight—even if it's with yourself.
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There are a TON of documented health benefits to masturbation. Each time you do it, your body releases serotonin, oxytocin, dopamine and endorphins – the hormones that make us feel happy and energized.
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Oral sex is a dance. Even though one partner is doing most of the work, you are still collaborating to create eroticism together.
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“I can’t sleep” hack = masturbate. Your body releases prolactin after orgasm, which has a mild sedative effect. Nighty night!
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The best sex in the world is the kind in which you get to feel absolutely free.
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Normalize talking about sex like you talk about what’s for dinner.
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The best sexual partners are the ones who aren’t afraid to look you in the eyes and ask: “what are you into?”
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Be the friend who isn't afraid to talk about sex.
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Hear me out: 69ing is romantic.
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Just because you have great sex doesn’t mean you’re supposed to be life partners. It is OK to enjoy sex without cohabitation or marriage being the end goal.
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Let's kill the myth that women have lower sex drives. I am living proof that that's not true.
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Orgasms are solid proof that our bodies are, in fact, magical ✨
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If anyone needs anything I’ll be masturbating until further notice.
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Masturbation and porn are part of being sexually healthy–even if you’re in a relationship.
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Sex isn’t a sidenote in a relationship.
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Turns out, partners like it when you care about their pleasure.
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I think we’re heading into a new era of hedonism once this pandemic is over. Who's joining me?
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This position combines the intimacy of missionary + the primal vibes of doggy. Here’s how to master the pretzel position: sexwithemily.com/how-to-mast…
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Masturbation IS the medicine. When you orgasm, your body releases endorphins: a natural painkiller.
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Hands up if you like your nipples squeezed during sex?
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Masturbation is literally taking pleasure into your own hands.
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Maybe hold off on any major life decisions until AFTER you’ve masturbated.
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We're all so divided right now, but at least we all love masturbation, right?
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Sex assumptions serve no one. Ask your partner what they’re into, what they fantasize about, and how you can amplify their pleasure.
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I don't know who needs to hear this today, but masturbation boosts your mood.
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I'm a fan of multiples: multiple orgasms, multiple men...
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Repeat after me: sex is messy! Never be ashamed of your normal body, doing its normal thing.
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Having a bad day? Masturbation lowers stress.
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One of the top signs of sexual compatibility: you care about each other’s pleasure.
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Always remember this: when giving oral, a little eye contact goes a long way.
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The sign of incredible sex isn’t an orgasm. It’s feeling desired for who you are.
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Stressed? Go masturbate: orgasm releases oxytocin, your body’s natural stress-reliever.
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Scheduling sex is a good thing.
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Normalize eye contact during sex.
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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: orgasm doesn’t have to be the goal of sex.
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It's time to let go of the idea that only men should initiate sex.
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Things to not be ashamed of: • Different-sized breasts • The way your genitalia looks • STI’s • Wanting to have sex with more than one person • Screaming orgasms so loud the neighbors hear In sex (as in life), you do you 😘
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Love mutual masturbation because we get to be voyeurs and exhibitionists at the same time.
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Life is short. Use a sex toy during sex.
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IDK who needs to hear this, but masturbating is productive.
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Good news! You never have to feel guilty about loving sex.
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Having a partner who’s enthusiastic about giving oral is the BEST.
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It's 2020. Stop being intimidated by a woman playing with her clitoris during sex.
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Do you ~love~ going down on people w vulvas? Talk to me: what makes it hot for you?
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If you haven't masturbated yet today, there's still time!
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