It's finally here: The moment all the print magazines of my adolescence warned me about.
I must style, pack, and fit outfits for both a bachelorette party and a work retreat in the same week & suitcase.
It's time to go from Day to Night.
Ectopic pregnancies can literally kill the women who experience them, and often the only treatment is abortion.
Abortion opponents are now calling for "watchful waiting," instead of treatment, which doctors are calling "malpractice." vox.com/2019/9/11/20859034/e…
"Donald Trump has been credibly accused of rape. Many, many women have come forward to say that he harassed and assaulted them. Those allegations are another thing that everybody knows. And yet." — @megangarbertheatlantic.com/entertainmen…
I asked for advice in a few FB groups on how to split night feeds for the baby when my husband goes back to work, and it is nuts how many women just do all of it themselves because their husbands have convinced them he is “the world’s deepest sleeper.”
Trump is "the least trusted president in the history of polling," writes @DavidFrum. 2/3 of Americans regard him as dishonest. 61% say he does not respect democracy.
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To recap:
1. @mckaycoppins writes an amazing profile of Romney, in which the senator admits having a secret Twitter.
2. @ashleyfeinberg does her thing, and finds the account basically immediately.
3. @MittRomney confirms.
A+ day for journalism.
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Just digging in to Emilia Clarke's brutal essay for the @NewYorker, about surviving TWO brain aneurysms: "If I am truly being honest, every minute of every day I thought I was going to die." newyorker.com/culture/person…
FYI we saw only vaxxed & boosted people for Christmas, with rapid testing before every interaction, and now 3 people have COVID and 6 of us have symptoms.
Also a lot of them are putting their own safety and the safety of their children at risk with that level of sleep deprivation. And they are telling me to do the same! And look not to overshare but my postpartum rage’s #1 trigger is exhaustion.
I am having a really terrible time with c-section recovery (even though it was planned, controlled, and my incision has been described as “beautiful”), and I am so grateful my husband has parental leave because it literally would not be safe for me to care for my children alone.
I’ve never seen my husband respond as strongly to a musical performance as he did to Demi Lovato just now. We are both sitting on our couch, speechless and teary. #GRAMMYs
Jaw-dropping. The Jehovah's Witness oversight organization compiled thousands of accounts of child molestation. Then, it protected the alleged perpetrators. theatlantic.com/family/archi…
My now-husband-then-boyfriend used to sneak over to my house at night and once he hit a parked police car with his bike while en route.
The whole town knew immediately, our parents were livid, and my sister commissioned this ornament for us a few years ago with our house #s.
Embarrassing confession: I do not know what I like to do. I have two kids under 3.5 and much of my free time is spent in service of our household or doing the bare minimum for myself, so I do not have any hobbies.
Except, now I need one. Or several.
Yesterday my American Airlines flight offered $1100 to people who would get off the flight from DC to Pensacola, and same thing: Nobody took it (including me).
I literally cannot believe there is a blood test for PREGNANT WOMEN where you can’t eat for ~4 hours first thing in the morning and they draw your blood every hour for three of them
Husband just said “you don’t know the girl who wrote ‘Donald Trump is gaslighting America,’ do you?” And I got to say YES I am internet friends with @laurenduca and then he and I fangirled together and marriage is fun.
I want to be super clear: We knew the risks, but we made a decision to see family anyway because two years of hiding a baby away was completely crushing. We did everything we could. I do not feel like I failed and I am just grateful we are all together and have mild symptoms ❤️
There are a few theories about why Wite-Out sales remain high:
1. Artists are using it as paint
2. An uptick in stationery sales (which means people are hand-writing and using paper)
3. Covering stuff up is satisfying!
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Also for all the parents following this, Madeline is so much less sick than she was when she had HFM or many of her other daycare viruses. Fever responded well to baby Advil and she’s in good spirits. Happily napping now ❤️
I lost my father-in-law to suicide two summers ago. He used the gun he had purchased that same morning.
@ChrisMurphyCT writes for @TheAtlantic: "We have not paid enough attention to the role guns play in America’s suicide crisis." theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
"Never gratuitously annoy the person who is deciding how long you’ll spend in federal prison. I shouldn’t have to tell people these things, but here we are." theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
“We have forgotten about our humanity, and that has got to change,” Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, tells @errinhaines of her experience being cyber-bullied. #sxsw#InternationalWomensDay
Really impressed with the military here and fully expected them to cave to the “religious exemption” thing, especially after my own reporting on this. Pleased to be proven wrong.
Nearly all active-duty members of the Army and Navy — 98% — are vaccinated against Covid-19. The service members who still refuse shots will be dismissed, the military said. Thousands of troops requested religious exemptions, but none have been granted. nyti.ms/3F5xtRU
There was literally only one skit I didn’t like. I was so, so impressed with the writing & humor. Also, @Camila_Cabello was PHENOMENAL. It’s so hard to sound great on that stage, and she totally blew me away.
Nine years ago today, 20 six- and seven-year olds, as well as six teachers, were murdered in a CT school building. This is every parent & educator's nightmare.
“It happens here, in America, because we choose to let it happen.” — @ChrisMurphyCTtheatlantic.com/politics/arc…
A second baby with RSV arrived shortly thereafter. They had been there earlier in the morning but been sent home. When breathing became labored, her mother returned. They were surrounded by coughing folks.
Trying to find more info on this but it’s possible women literally need more sleep than men? I am skeptical but also intrigued sleepfoundation.org/women-sl…
Some other important context is that we are already splitting night feeds where he is actually doing more work, but his hospital job starts at 6 AM, requires a 4 AM wake-up, and is objectively high-stakes, so that isn’t super sustainable starting on Monday.
I am / everything is fine (& I’ll take PCR and rapid tests in a few days), but obviously the systems we currently have in place aren’t working.
And also obviously I would not have been in the ER if I could have avoided it. I was not there for fun.
hello embarrassing question: for pandemic parents who did not have any help immediately preceding or following the birth of their 2020 babies, what kind of help should i ask for this time around? how do i ask for that help?
I turned in my first piece for @TheAtlantic and I am already second-guessing basically every single word and also I forgot like 100 different angles I wanted to address and also do I even speak the English language???
Wayfair employees threatened to walk out after discovering their products were being used at the border facilities.
@TheAtlantic has an exclusive, leaked recording of yesterday's meeting with the company co-founder and CTO: theatlantic.com/technology/a…
Just found out that my husband intubated and performed a bronchoscopy yesterday on a patient who today is testing positive for Covid, and now he might get sick and miss the birth of our second child. Cool pandemic we've got here, everybody!
"Sen. Elizabeth Warren could tell me that she’s going to make me wear waffles as underpants and I’ll vote for her."
I laughed so much reading these hypotheticals.
"President Trump has become even more destabilizing and dangerous," writes @Peter_Wehner, who has worked in the three previous Republican administrations. "Trump’s crippling psychological condition" has become "lethal." theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
Trump's strategy, according to @davidfrum:
1. Talk MORE about impeachment
2. Show no contrition
3. Leave fingerprints everywhere
4. Make no attempt at persuasion
5. Read the stage directions aloud
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NEW from @AdamHSays: Elizabeth Warren is calling for a series of ambitious proposals including the cancellation of student debt, universal free public college, and greater support for minority and low-income students. theatlantic.com/education/ar…
“Your voice is not small, it just needs to be heard,” Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, tells @errinhaines about what it takes to make a difference at the @19thnews panel at @sxsw. #InternationalWomensDay
You want devastatingly beautiful? I'll give you devastatingly beautiful:
14 Vietnam vets in their 70s are saving a bottle of cognac until all but two of them are dead. The last two will toast to the rest and to the "family" they have built. theatlantic.com/family/archi…
Samira Ahmed stands to make £700,000 ($898,464) from her lawsuit against the BBC—in large part because she was able to speak to her male comparator about his salary.
Without that info, “You’re stuck with a right [to equal pay] you can’t enforce." theatlantic.com/internationa…
"If the Georgia race had taken place in another country...U.S. media and the U.S. State Department would not have hesitated to question its legitimacy." — @ProfCAnderson theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
Newly-surfaced documents reveal the University of Texas "adopted a selective admissions policy based around standardized testing, which they knew would suppress the number of African American students they were forced to admit." theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
I know I'm too pregnant because I am wearing the maternity cult favorite Lululemon Align leggings — in a size up, no less — and they are still rolling down.
Literally how does anyone survive the last four weeks
Tomorrow is “sports day” at my child’s daycare and they are expected to wear some kind of team gear. We are uh…not a sports family! What can I send her in that’s sports-ish?
This is nuts:
1. Nearly 25% of parents surveyed reported being fired due to child care disruptions
2. More than 50% of Americans live in an area w/ 3+ children under 5 for every 1 child care spot
3. Child care obstacles cost the economy $122 billion
19thnews.org/2023/02/child-c…
Trump's playbook so far has involved:
1. bullying political allies & opponents
2. lying
3. deflecting attention
4. spawning fabricated investigations
5. dismissing serious issues
6. pointing to the economy
But a virus won't respond to any of those things theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
Unreal: From 2009-2014, more than 40% of accepted white students at Harvard were 'ALDC'—athletes, legacies, Dean’s list (related to donors), or kids of faculty.
Without those factors, researchers said, 75% of them would have been rejected. theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
As more hospitals become overwhelmed, more military members are going to deploy to augment the response. Make their jobs easier; Get vaccinated. theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
Exclusive: Former CIA director Brennan writes that the day he met Trump "was one of the few times in my professional career that I successfully suppressed my Irish temper when dealing with a politician. I wish I hadn’t." theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…
As an audience editor, I do a lot of reading, but I was not exaggerating when I told my husband this was one of the best articles I had ever read in my life.
You'd be remiss not to read @Sarahzhang's December cover story for @TheAtlantic: theatlantic.com/magazine/arc…
According to a 2015 paper out of Arizona State University, there are some data that mass shootings often occur in bunches, which indicates that they “infect” new potential murderers, not unlike a disease. theatlantic.com/health/archi…
How soon after vaccination approval for children ages 5–11 can we expect children under the age of 5 to be able to get a shot?, @craigmelvin asks @Pfizer CEO @AlbertBourla.
“Between 2 and 5 [years old]… before the end of the year.” #TAF21on.theatln.tc/gpTrpQp
It just seems unfair that parenthood is both the time in your life when you most need your hair pulled back and also the time your hairline recedes from postpartum hair loss
I just got to break the news to my mom, who is in prison where they don’t allow inmates to read the paper or internet, and the first thing she did was turn around and shout it to the entire room.