Complaints about men’s lack of effort is cute when 99% of women put in ZERO effort themselves. Women rarely approach, rarely get rejected, rarely carry initial convos, rarely initiate (anything), rarely plan first dates, rarely pay for first dates, rarely make the first move, etc etc etc. Not to mention they reward men who put in no effort. So why should other men pony up after seeing you spend your best years giving yourself to awful men who didn’t put in effort?